With our life, nothing is really constant. Things changes every now and then due to different factor that's happening from within. We might see and encounter people who seems to be the happiest people in the world, but less than we know, those people are actually struggling and in pain. I’ve learned from my seminars before, that people are actually wearing a mask. You would never know what is behind their head.
Friendships, Marriage, partnerships, colleagues and other types or forms of relationships would never be perfect. Nothing is perfect and nothing is constant. It’s nice to love and open up with the people you love and surrounds you but always remember to left something for yourself. I believe about what it says that “You could never be in Love or you never Love others, unless you Love Yourself”…
I saw Oprah shows few days ago that tackles about some wife who was being Raped by their own husband. One of the guess was a winner of Mrs. America whom being raped by her own husband. I can’t describe her face in the picture where she was kicked, punch, threatened and raped. Another guess was a Sheriff who helps and protect other people. As she said, for the three years she’s been hurt her, both emotionally and physical, she was in total denial.
Most wives who are/were victims, would never see any signs because of the thought that they are married therefore they are supposed to give and obey their husband. But according to the law, once your husband forced you in doing things that is against your will it’s considered as “RAPED”…
To all wives out there who are victims and are still hiding and scared to come out… get help from your family, friends, police and attorney… Open your mind and always LOVE YOURSELF FIRST and don’t let anybody hurt you not even your husband.
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